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2/26/2018 February 26, 2018
![]() DO THIS // MEAL TIME Q & A for kids: What is the most valuable thing you own? How do you treat it? Q & A for parents: What is the kindest thing anyone has ever done for you?
RULES OR RELATIONSHIP: A SIMPLE MAXIM FOR PARENTS By Carey Nieuwhof My guess is that in your house—like my house—there’s a constant tension between rules and relationships. Your nine-year-old is supposed to help wash the car, but instead decides that riding his bike is a far more important to the functioning of the universe than cleaning your dirty minivan. How do you respond? On the one hand, you need . . . rules—boundaries, guidelines, and limits that make life work and shape character. On the other hand, you need . . . relationships—love for each other, respect, and even some basic kindness. But rules and relationships always seem to be in tension with each other, don’t they? Clamp down too hard on the rules, and the relationship suffers. Or work hard on relationship and the temptation is to slack off on the rules. Here’s a maxim that I think can help those of us who struggle with this tension: Never ruin a relationship over a rule. Never ruin a rule over a relationship . . . CONTINUE READING ON THE PARENT CUE BLOG For blog posts and parenting resources, visit www.ParentCue.org
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